On Forbearance, Patience and Kindness

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The following is taken from Imam Nawawi’s (r.a) Riyad al-Salihin (‘Gardens of the Righteous’) translated by. Ustadha Ayesha Bewley, chapter 74

Allah Almighty says, “those who control their rage and pardon other people. Allah loves the good-doers,”(Quran 3:134) and the Almighty says, “Make allowances for people, command what is right, and turn away from the ignorant.” (Quran 7:199) The Almighty says, “Good action and bad action are not the same. Repel the bad with what is better and, if there is enmity between you and someone else, he will be like a bosom friend. None will obtain it but those who are truly steadfast. None will obtain it but those who have great good fortune.”(Quran 41:33-34; 41:34-35) The Almighty says, “But if someone is steadfast and forgives, that is the most resolute course to follow.” (Quran 42:40; 42:43)

632. Ibn ‘Abbas (r.a) reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace), said to Ashajj ‘Abdu’l-Qays (r.a) , “You have two qualities which Allah loves: forbearance and steadiness.” [Appears in Sahih Muslim]

633. ‘A’isha (r.a) reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) , said, “Allah is kind and loves kindness in every matter.” [Appears in Sahih Muslim, Tirmidhi] 

634. ‘Alisha (r.a)  reported that the Prophet, (may Allah bless him and grant him peace)  said, “Allah is kind and loves kindness and gives for gentleness what he does not give for harshness nor for anything else.” [Appears in Sahih Muslim]

635. ‘A’isha (r.a) reported that the Prophet, (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) , said, “Whenever kindness is in a thing it adorns it, and whenever it is removed from anything, it disfigures it.” [Appears in Sahih Muslim]

636. Abu Hurayra (r.a) said, “A bedouin urinated in the mosque. The people moved towards him and the Prophet,(may Allah bless him and grant him peace) , said, ‘Let him be and pour a bucket or pail of water onto his urine. You were sent to make things easy and not to make them difficult.’” [Appears Sahih al-Bukhari]

637. Anas (r.a) reported that the Prophet, (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) said, “Make things easy for people and do not make them difficult. Give good news to people and do not frighten them away.” [Appears in Sahih Bukhari] 

638. Jarir ibn ‘Abdullah (r.a)  said, “I heard the Messenger of Allah, (may Allah bless him and grant him peace) say, ‘Whoever is deprived of kindness is deprived of all good.’” [Appears in Sahih Muslim]

639. Abu Hurayra (r. a) reported that a man said to the Prophet,( may Allah bless him and grant him peace) , “Advise me.” He said, “Do not get angry.” He repeated his request several times and the Prophet said, “Do not get angry.” [Appears in Sahih al-Bukhari] 

641. ‘Alisha (r.a) said, “The Messenger of Allah, (may Allah bless him and grant him peace)  was never given a choice between two matters without taking the easier of them, as long as it was not a wrong action. If it was a wrong action, he was the furthest of people from it. The Messenger of Allah did not take revenge for himself in respect of anything unless it violated the sanctity of Allah. Then he would take revenge for the sake of Allah Almighty.” [Appears in sahih al Bukhari]

642. Ibn Masud (r.a)  reported that the Messenger of Allah,(may Allah bless him and grant him peace) , said, “Shall I tell you who is unlawful for the Fire(hell) – or the one for whom the Fire is unlawful? It is unlawful for everyone who is easy, flexible, modest and uncomplicated.” [Appears in at-Tirmidhi, it’s Sahih] 

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